Nov. 7th, 2010 09:47 pm
elsewhence: (conversation hearts)
yeah, still demisexual. there's been some stuff lately that made me wonder, but then i realised, the sexual attraction in question is still based in a strong emotional connection, it's just not romantic love.

also, i'm just as capable of romantic love without sexual attraction as of sexual attraction without romantic love. and also of romantic love that doesn't involve a desire for a formal relationship and is perfectly happy being friends with the person in question. and of expressing what people would read as behaviour typical of a formal relationship, but purely for its own sake, without actually being in or desiring one.

seriously, let's stop trying to put romance and sexuality into such narrow little boxes.